Have you tried that you were caught in the middle? You can't do this because it's too much and the other one is not enough. But how to define that it's too much already or if it's not enough? What is too much and what is not enough?
You loved a person for years but only then after those years, after tying the knot it is only then that you we're told that it's too much. What does it mean? if it's too much then I also believe to cut it all down, but you were afraid to do so because you believe that that's the way married people should do. Submitting to one another and making their priority. Money is not the one who holds the family, but the relationship inside it. The communication of both man and woman and more importantly the understanding towards each other. But how can you understand if you're hurt? you we're trapped in the "I shouldn't have done that" part. And then he or she'll tell you he need space. How should you deal with it? The more you'll ask the world why now? If only, the "what is too much" thing is defined earlier then we shouldn't have been caught in the middle.
I'm sad and happy. I'm sad that in reality there are knots and promises broken to pieces. If only I could do something about it. I always loved happy endings and never thought of broken pieces. But sometimes it's your fate telling you to STOP. I'm happy because yes, there are good reasons why it happened. I'm happy because I can now see that he has moved on and is ready and willing to face life again.
I love you kya... we will support you all the way 'till death we're always here. You're not alone, you may feel alone at times but no, you're not. maybe our time hasn't come yet and if it does, we know that we have a strong shoulder to lean on (hehehehe mao d.i gipa strong ka para naa mi ma rely-yan toinks!).
And I'm proud of you, because I never thought that you'll get over it as soon as now. I know you loved her dearly, you loved her with all your life that nothing's been left for you. But you did it! thanks for opening it up to us your family. at least now, we can celebrate christmas together as a whole and family again. we understand that the hurt keeps coming back but don't worry, it'll fade as time goes by.
See? as per her, if only you could go back together again, her loss not yours (tiwasan pajud?) I didn't know about the divorce papers thanks for sharing it. So it's final. And also, one thing's for sure, she's still our friend.
You loved a person for years but only then after those years, after tying the knot it is only then that you we're told that it's too much. What does it mean? if it's too much then I also believe to cut it all down, but you were afraid to do so because you believe that that's the way married people should do. Submitting to one another and making their priority. Money is not the one who holds the family, but the relationship inside it. The communication of both man and woman and more importantly the understanding towards each other. But how can you understand if you're hurt? you we're trapped in the "I shouldn't have done that" part. And then he or she'll tell you he need space. How should you deal with it? The more you'll ask the world why now? If only, the "what is too much" thing is defined earlier then we shouldn't have been caught in the middle.
I'm sad and happy. I'm sad that in reality there are knots and promises broken to pieces. If only I could do something about it. I always loved happy endings and never thought of broken pieces. But sometimes it's your fate telling you to STOP. I'm happy because yes, there are good reasons why it happened. I'm happy because I can now see that he has moved on and is ready and willing to face life again.
I love you kya... we will support you all the way 'till death we're always here. You're not alone, you may feel alone at times but no, you're not. maybe our time hasn't come yet and if it does, we know that we have a strong shoulder to lean on (hehehehe mao d.i gipa strong ka para naa mi ma rely-yan toinks!).
And I'm proud of you, because I never thought that you'll get over it as soon as now. I know you loved her dearly, you loved her with all your life that nothing's been left for you. But you did it! thanks for opening it up to us your family. at least now, we can celebrate christmas together as a whole and family again. we understand that the hurt keeps coming back but don't worry, it'll fade as time goes by.
See? as per her, if only you could go back together again, her loss not yours (tiwasan pajud?) I didn't know about the divorce papers thanks for sharing it. So it's final. And also, one thing's for sure, she's still our friend.
